All tangled up: Let’s eliminate “no strings attached” sex

All tangled up: Let’s eliminate “no strings attached” sex

Recently, much to my unclear pleasure, i discovered myself perched on an automatic washer being energetically fingered by a male that is human.

Well! This was an appealing (and enthusiastically consented-to) situation, maybe not minimum of most because

  1. I’m a(okay that is lesbian ok, I’m bisexual, but as my hilarious and stunning freshman roomie states, “Reina. Guys will likely not you will need to have intercourse they look over you calling your self a lesbian in publications. with you if” To which we say: The ones that are creepy!), and
  2. I happened to be on an automatic washer.

Much more interesting: this kind of peoples male had read a bit of mine on intimate ethics, hookup culture, and vulnerability, in which he had some concerns.

Specifically: Why in the world can you speak to a chick you fucked the after morning? Does not this just make shit more awkward for all of us?

I really believe that my pussy is a diplomat, distributing feminism anywhere she goes. Appropriately, and hands being duly removed from my vagina, we assumed our jobs round the dryer/campfire. Sharing time!

To your smart-asses noting that i favor referring to intercourse to, you know, sex: sex is discursive, bitches.

the main topic of the hour: No strings connected intercourse.

We reside in a tradition that dichotomizes closeness. Oftentimes, we realize intercourse as either a love-you-forever, mind-body-and-soul, marry-me experience with which two people are expected to care deeply for starters another and treat one another consequently, or a throw-away, wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am, commodified, amoral journey all over roller rink. Those sequins!

A politics of purity — a straight, white, cisgender politics of respectability — usually characterizes the previous types of intercourse. The second types of sex is most readily useful summarized aided by the term no strings connected. Continue reading “All tangled up: Let’s eliminate “no strings attached” sex”