“About 3 days. ” posted by jon_kill at 9:38 AM on 21, 2009 3 favorites april
From the things I can glean from your own concern, neither of you communicated with one another after all for 3 days, and also this ended up being after two months of dating. So that you both delivered the message you had beenn’t that into each other.
You’re wasting power attempting to show up with excuses so it did not suggest exactly what it suggested. Oh, it had been simply “casual” (whatever which means), there have been no full-day times, there clearly was no intercourse. That you don’t also have to ask us whether these known facts insulate you against critique, as you’re seeing the effect: they don’t really.
But we find her effect as well as the result of some in this thread become bizarrely asymmetrical, let’s assume that you had been both doing the precise same task. Just why is it solely anonymous’s responsibility? Published by Jaltcoh at 9:40 have always been on April 21, 2009
Less helpful, but totally real, solution: You acted just like a jerk that is complete. Vanishing for three months is unacceptable in almost any intimate relationship where emotions and objectives are delicate and folks are wondering where they stay and where in fact the relationship is certainly going.
More helpful, and in addition real, response: To be less of the jerk in the foreseeable future, simply communicate, as SNWidget said. Continue reading ““just how long is simply too long of no contact while dating? “”